Although the engagement ring is traditionally a surprise, more and more people propose without a ring and go ring shopping together.
UPDATED 05.03.2026
Although the engagement ring is traditionally a surprise, more and more people propose without a ring and go ring shopping together.
UPDATED 05.03.2026
Yes, many!
62% of couples go choose her engagement ring together, meaning that many choose to propose to their partner without a ring!
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Why not!
Lady Diana demonstrated it already years ago when she chose her own ring instead of having Prince Charles get her a "surprise" one.
After all, that ring is usually the piece of jewelry she will wear every day, for the rest of her life. It is therefore of the uttermost importance that she really loves her engagement ring and not only the symbol it bears.
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If a woman wants to get engaged and that her partner has not even proposed yet, she can also take the matter into her own hands:
Going engagement ring shopping together doesn't have to be unromantic at all! Quite the contrary, there are many advantages to it.
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Surprising your loved one with an engagement ring requires, of course, having purchased it beforehand. Selecting the ring, though, can be harder than expected. Even if you know your partner very well, it can be a daunting task to find out the ring she would pick out for herself!
47% of women recognize not being in love with the engagement ring their partner chose. Of course, all of them proudly wear their engagement ring and are in love with its symbolic meaning, but they admit that they would have gotten a different design.
In a physical store, exchanging the ring is usually impossible. Online stores do, however, tend to offer such guarantee.
NOTE: At My Diamond Ring, you can exchange your engagement ring for another one or even return the ring and benefit from our 100% money-back guarantee.
If you wish to propose with a "surprise ring", you need to achieve the difficult task of getting a ring she truly likes, for a budget you can afford.
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Always make sure:
NOTE: We, at My Diamond Ring, offer GIA certified diamonds only; have a 4.9 stars rating on E-trusted shops; and offer a 100% money back guarantee so you can return your ring free of charge, or exchange it for another one!